Parenting is a paradox. On one hand, it is about nurturing — protecting, guiding, teaching, and loving with full presence. On the other hand, it is about letting go — allowing independence, making space for mistakes, and trusting children to grow into their own strength.

Most parents struggle because they hold too tightly to one side. Some over-nurture, shielding their children from pain, risk, or failure. Others let go too soon, confusing freedom with neglect. True parenting lies in the balance, and that balance is constantly shifting as a child grows.

I experienced this firsthand with my own upbringing. My family nurtured me with love, yet they never allowed me to stay dependent. When I fell, they expected me to rise. When I doubted, they expected me to try again. Their nurturing gave me security; their letting go gave me resilience.

Now, as a father, I feel that same tension every day. When my sons face challenges, my instinct is to protect them. But I remind myself: every struggle they face is training for life. Every failure is a lesson in resilience. Nurturing means being there with love; letting go means not taking the struggle away.

The hardest part is timing. Knowing when to step in and when to step back. But perhaps the truth is, there is no perfect timing. Parenting is imperfect, and children do not need perfection. They need presence, honesty, and courage — from both themselves and their parents.

To nurture is to plant roots. To let go is to give wings. Both are necessary. Without roots, a child feels lost. Without wings, a child feels trapped. The art of parenting is to give both — so that when they walk into the world, they carry stability and freedom together.

The modern world moves fast. Technology reshapes our habits every year, trends come and go in months, and even families can become fragmented by the rush of individual pursuits. In this whirlwind, traditions act like anchors — grounding us in meaning, continuity, and belonging.

Family traditions don’t have to be elaborate or ancient. They simply have to be intentional. A Friday night dinner, a yearly trip, a prayer said together, or even a bedtime ritual — each one becomes a signal to the next generation: this is who we are, this is what we value, this is how we connect.

In my childhood, traditions kept us strong. Despite challenges, setbacks, and even betrayal, our family had rhythms that held us together. The stories shared at meals, the resilience taught by grandparents, the faith passed through rituals — all of it built a foundation that still supports me today.

Now with my own children, I feel the responsibility to create new traditions. Not replicas of the old, but evolutions of them. Ones that speak to our context, our world, our challenges. In our home, traditions are not about nostalgia. They are about identity.

The paradox of modern life is that in chasing freedom, many families lose their roots. But true freedom requires belonging. And traditions, small or big, are what weave belonging into daily life.

In the end, the world will always change. But if my children grow up with traditions that remind them of love, resilience, and purpose, they will never be lost in that change. Because they will always know who they are, and where they come from.

Love without discipline creates weakness. Discipline without love creates fear. But when the two are woven together, they create strength that lasts a lifetime.

In parenting, I’ve seen how easy it is to lean too far toward one side. When love overpowers discipline, children grow up sheltered, entitled, or fragile in the face of adversity. When discipline overpowers love, children grow up rigid, resentful, or afraid to take risks. The balance is everything — and it is the hardest balance to maintain.

My own upbringing taught me this lesson. My grandparents and parents loved me fiercely, but they also refused to let my physical challenges define me. When I fell, they encouraged me to get up on my own. When I doubted myself, they reminded me of my strength. Their love was never a cushion that protected me from effort — it was fuel that pushed me to keep trying.

Now, with my own children, I try to carry this forward. I love them deeply, but I do not shield them from responsibility. I discipline them firmly, but never without kindness. Because what I want them to learn is that love and discipline are not opposites — they are allies.

When children experience this harmony, they grow into adults who are both compassionate and resilient, kind and courageous, gentle in spirit and unbreakable in will. That is the kind of character the world needs most.

So my philosophy is simple: love with discipline, discipline with love. Anything less creates imbalance. Anything more creates leaders.

Parenting is often described as sacrifice, responsibility, or even struggle. And while it is all of those, I see it as something more: the greatest leadership training ground anyone can experience.

In business, leaders learn to inspire, to correct, to build systems, to hold people accountable. In parenting, the stakes are even higher — because here, the followers are not employees or colleagues, but children who look at you as their first model of the world.

Every word I speak, every action I take, every inconsistency I show is magnified through their eyes. Parenting demands authenticity, because children are the sharpest detectors of hypocrisy. You cannot tell them one thing and live another. They will not only see the difference, they will absorb it.

Parenting also trains patience like nothing else. In leadership, you may demand results within quarters. In parenting, results emerge over decades. The seed you plant today may not show until your child is grown and raising their own children. That kind of long view builds endurance and humility.

Most importantly, parenting teaches that leadership is not about control — it is about empowerment. My role is not to dictate who my children become, but to create an environment where they can discover themselves, stand strong, and live by values. The same is true of great organizations.

When I step into a boardroom, I carry the lessons of my home. Patience, consistency, authenticity, empowerment — parenting sharpened these far more than any MBA ever could. Because at its core, parenting is leadership in its purest form.

Resilience is not taught in classrooms. It is lived, experienced, and most often, inherited through the people who raise us. For me, resilience was not an abstract concept. It was the daily lesson I absorbed from my grandparents.

My grandfather was my greatest supporter. When the world doubted whether I would ever stand on my own, he poured his life into my treatments, into my wellbeing, into my confidence. His belief was unshakable, and in that belief, I learned that resilience begins with love. When someone believes in you without condition, it becomes impossible to give up on yourself.

My grandmother, on the other hand, was my toughest teacher. She never let me accept sympathy, not even from strangers. If I fell in the street, she would stop others from helping me and insist I rise on my own. At the time, it felt harsh. But in retrospect, it was the greatest gift. She taught me that resilience is not waiting for help — it is learning to rise, even in pain.

Between them, I learned two sides of resilience: the soft strength of unconditional support, and the hard strength of uncompromising independence. Together, they created the foundation of who I am today.

When I face challenges in business, leadership, or family, I often return to those lessons. Love gives me the courage to endure. Independence gives me the strength to act. And resilience, in its truest form, is born when those two forces meet.